Prostitution

Whore, slut, and loose woman, these are all words that have been used to label a prostitute. What is a prostitute, according to the Readers Digest Universal dictionary a prostitute is one who solicits and accepts payment for sex or sexual services, relating mainly to a woman or girl. It also defines the word as someone whom sells or degrades his or her abilities or name for money or an unworthy cause.
A prostitute though in my opinion provides a very specialized intense service in personal development and satisfaction.. Ok, ok yes there are those that just lay or their backs in the missionary position and collect the money at the end of the day, and if that’s the case so what, who are we to judge how and by what means people especially woman earn their money. However there are those that use this gift they have to be of service, to nurture, to educate, to change peoples lives.
Prostitution has been described as a “social evil” of gigantic proportions, to me those that have labeled and named prostitutes as dirty, unworthy women lacking morals, just do not understand. What I get are they are people who are trapped in their beliefs, their “perfect little world” (which of course I was once in) and refuse to step out of the box due to fear, from confusion and judgement.
I do not speak for all women yet as a woman in a so called “mans world”, and one who embraces her sexuality, I urge each and everyone of you, connect with your true animal instincts, experiment with sex, embrace your sexuality use it enjoy it, we are all prostitutes at the end of the day. By definition prostitution can be labeled as an honorable service, it provides and outlet for growth, for exploration, for learning and in truth is that not what life is about.

pups x

Bi sexuality - best of both worlds x

A lesbian once told me that I was greedy because I liked both boys and girls, well I say I enjoy the best of both worlds, I choose not to limit my sexual experiences and to embrace them full on… having a nice hard cock thrusting deep inside me while having my clitoris licked, teased and sucked by a beautiful gentle goddess is just orgasmic. Even just thinking about it gets me all hot and bothered. I can even feel the soft tongue caressing my sacred bud right at this present moment ahh what heaven.

Come on all you girls, who can honestly say, hand on heart that they have never thought what it would be like to kiss another woman… remember when you were young playing with your girlfriends, talking about boys kissing them and making love, did you not think back how it would be to just kiss your best friend just to see if it was the same as kissing a boy… Well girls let me just tell you if the opportunity ever comes up for you again grab it with both hands or lips for that matter… Kissing a girl’s soft tender lips is like nothing you can really imagine its pure heaven. Slipping your tongue into her warm inviting mouth, slowly exploring one another, teasing and tormenting mmm yum yum, is all I can say. So the next time you and your girlfriends have a night in, light some candles and if need be have a glass of wine, relax and go wild…oh and don’t forget the strap on..

pups x

experiment learn tantra

According to Tantik Aghorinathji “tantra has been one of the most neglected branches of Indian Spiritual studies despite the considerable number of writings devoted to the practice of tantra.”

When you mention tantra to many people they just see it as some alternative sex like bdsm, that it is too out there for the normal housewife and husband to partake in. Another opinion is that a lot and this is mainly aimed and you men, that some do not get why holding back the orgasm is such an enjoyable experience. Guys and girls let me just say that give it a try, hold that urge, really you will be so amazed at how much more pleasure you will experience over time..

Seriously use the energy to heighten that sexual desire in you, breathe through the temptation to orgasm, allow the energy to rise through your whole body, use it to ignite the fire within, and connect you closer to the one you love become one with them. There is so much more to be had than just the standard lovemaking routine, if you are open and willing to learn.

Read a book, take a class, explore each others bodies and of course your own, embrace it, tantra will awaken you, body mind and soul. Sex is a ritual it is to be experienced not just a “wham bang thank you ma’am”, even quickies can be created to give each other pure orgasmic bliss. guys all it takes is consciousness, breathing and experiment, and have fun with those tantric postions.

pups x

Swinging heaven

Well what can I say about swinging… honestly people give it a go, watching your partner sliding his thick manhood into a nice juicy pussy, whilst you are been taken in the same way by another or even better while you are having your pussy licked by the other woman, yum yum.

Ladies there is nothing to be jealous about watching your man fuck another girl or guy for that matter. The same goes for you guys, just because your partner wishes to be a slut for the night does not mean she loves you any less, in fact in many cases it will bring you both closer together and I can guarantee it will improve your own lovemaking…

So I hear you ask where do we go, how to we find another couple etc etc, well to start look in the playmates magazines. These are available from local sex shops, or else sign up on adultmatchmaker or equivalent, then away you go…

A word of warning though people make sure you talk with the couples first, arrange a meeting in a public place and then well the rest if up to you guys… Finally though on the safety factor, as we no longer live in a disease free world, respect your bodies and those of others, look after yourself and always have regular health checks if you plan to play and remember it does not hurt to ask the other parties involved when was their last check up etc etc and I cannot stress enough always, always use a condom.

pups x

Erotic lovemaking

Like a delicate little flower coming into bloom, her pussy slowly opening as she slid up and down his thick hard cock, slowly teasing and tormenting him. The room was filled with intense sexual energy as I slowly watched their lovemaking.

What a performance they gave, two becoming one, watching their bodies entwine was pure erotic bliss and what a gift for me to receive. Their supple bodies glowing in the dim light, she was a gorgeous as I had remembered, her pussy open and inviting the smell was like sweet perfume, intoxicating, god how I want to taste her. Watching them together seeing their unconditional love for one another was mesmerising, the way they moved, their bodies flowed as one, they were one, totally connect body, mind and soul.

I could all but control my own orgasm as i sat and watched them, this was not porn this was complete pure erotic art. The energy and passion emanating from them both consumed me, when I touched her, slowly running my hands across her back, I felt myself start to shake.

This was far better than I had remembered. Been free to touch her to caress her soft delicate body, to lick and tease her nipples, as she took him deep inside her. Watching them I knew that I myself would find this completeness with another in due time.

pups x

Female masturbation

Now ladies how do you expect your partner to please you if you do not know how to pleasure yourself. Get in tune with your bodies, explore examine and experiment. If you ever take a tantra class this is one of the steps involved. Seriously ladies do not be shy, grab that mirror and look at yourself admire your femininity, after all it really is work of art..

Touch yourself, feel and know every inch of your pussy, by doing this not only will it enhance your sex life it will also help you notice if any changes occur, and therefore help you seek attention sooner. Masturbation in general is done in the privacy of your room, to start with use your fingers, play explore open yourself up, tease yourself, ladies i can promise you, you will love it.

Once comfortable with yourself, why not share this intimate experience with your partner put on a show for him, believe me your sex life will soar. You can show him how to touch you to tease you to pleasure you, no more having to lie their and pretend that hes doing it right or worse still fake that orgasm.

There is nothing worse than a guy playing with your pussy, rubbing at your clitoris when he has no idea of what you want, it will start to hurt and the experience will be in a word, horrible. Communication is the key, tell him what you want, give him feedback when he touches you the way you enjoy. Guide his hands, his tongue remember he is not a mind reader, sharing such an intimate display will enhance your lovemaking.

So ladies get those mirrors out and away you go…

pups x

Female ejeculation

For starters female ejaculation has nothing to do with releasing urine… according to the Taoist religion fluids released from female ejaculation are sacred and should be honoured… ie boys you should be queuing up to sleep on the wet patch no getting as far away as possible.

Girls yes I will be honest the first time this happened to me I though oh my god I have wet myself and tried to hold back, yet wow… talk about one hell of a feeling, it was such a release, such a high, my entire body felt alive the orgasm was well really you have to experience it…

The second time well that was really only a couple of nights ago and hey that was even more intense especially seen as the fist of one gorgeous erotic beauty was deep inside of me, teasing me. Honestly girls do not be ashamed, embarrassed or fearful embrace your sexuality your lovemaking will never be the same.

Get your partner to explore, tell him what you like and especially what you do not like, encourage him, learn with him, your body is this amazing creation play with it have fun with it, explore it.

pups x

pussy licking

Pussy licking is not a chow down session boys, it is an art, an erotic sensual art that can be perfected over time and give a boost to your lovemaking. The most important thing to get is to listen to your partner, listen to her moans, you will hear when she is happy, communicate with her seek the feedback, and ladies be honest, help your man, talk to him.

First things first guys is to treat her pussy as a delicate flower after all that is what it is, look at it admire it, open it up slowly and gently, see what a beautiful creation it is. Slowly tease her, run your tongue gently up her inner thigh, believe me this will get her going, tease her outer lips with your tongue, gently lick her, flick your tongue over her clitoris, remember go slow, savour every moment.

Guys remember her clitoris is like the tip of your cock, very very sensitive, so start softly, work up the excitement, you do not need to be like a bull in a china shop and dive straight in, she will not appreciate it, torment her, make a performance out of it, show her how devoted you are to pleasing her at that moment. You will know when it is time to go harder, slip a finger inside her, tease her even more, honestly prolong the tension, she will love you for it.

A little secret is guys pay attention to the foreplay, pay attention to her clitoris, a vast majority of woman orgasm only through clitoral stimulation, so practice explore and listen.

pups x

Get sexphysical...

Now we all know that lovemaking burns those calories, and in this health conscious era should we all be focusing on that little extra work out and choosing to be healthy

Now to keep our bodies toned we could go for that long brisk walk every morning, yet what if its cold or raining, not a chance I hear you all chime. What would be more enjoyable and refreshing to stay curled up under those blankets and have an intense lovemaking session instead.

Ok so you will not burn up so many calories just doing the age old missionary position, yet come on people, lets be imaginative. Tone your bodies while doing the best loved exercise on this earth.

Here is a little suggestion to get you all started, the next time you and your loved one ( or bonking partner) rent a movie, why not get out the guide to Karma Sutra, educate yourselves and have some fun, laugh and explore, go on learn some tantra positions, your body will love you for it, not to mention how much enjoyment and pleasure you and your partner will experience while practicing and getting all tangled up in each other…

pups x

sex

Why does the fact that you have made the choice to sell your body bring up all these judgmental views. staements like been a hooker means you have low morals, or you are dirty, a drug addict, illiterate or worse still you are a SLUT…the list goes on.. who gave people the right to judge what you choose to do with your life, this is your decision..

However girls if you have reservations about what you do, and feel low, ashamed and dirty then ask yourself is it really what you want to do. Be true to yourself you do have a choice, do not just lay down in the missionary position and submit to men or other woman for that matter. if you do this then you are the victim, you are not in control of your life, you do not have the power. You are allowing yourself to be used and abused.

Always remember as a sacred human being you do have a choice, you are the one in control. you have the right to refuse. You are been of service to some extremely lucky client. girls please always respect your bodies, respect yourself and above all love yourself. Giving yourself permission to create a living through the use of your body is nothing to be ashamed about. For what i see having the courage, the confidence, the control and imagination to utilise such a wonderful asset is a gift to those that receive your service.

pups x

Pure bliss

He was complete in swinging heaven, what more could a powerful sensual man like him desire, lying on his back watching as these two beautiful erotic women worshipped his manhood, his body. I sat there watching, it was a delightful sight to see him so contented, calm and at peace with the world, connected.

He was reveling in every minute, watching as the taller one slowly moved up and down his cock, moving her elegant shapely body in rhythm to his deep thrusts. Watching her you could see, she too was basking in the pleasure, she was savoring every deep stoke and why not, after all he had perfected the art of lovemaking over time.

The other exotic beauty wiggled her butt and I seized the opportunity, seeing this as an open invitation, I knew how much she got off on a spanking, and her tight little bottom was right there begging for it, who was I to refuse. I started slowly just warming her up, her pussy was dripping, and she smelt so sweet, how deliciously erotic and sensual the scene was.

I teased and tormented her with sharp quick slaps across her buttocks, hearing her moan louder was music to my ears. The performance continued on, with her writhing on his cock, and the other lapping at his balls, while I continued with the spanking, and an occasional stroke of my fingers against her pussy, they were all writhing in orgasmic bliss, this was better than any drug, this was life.

pups x

First day ata legalised Brothel

I rolled over and sleepily looked at the clock… 715 it said… was I really going to do this, was i going to sell my body for the day.. What was i thinking, this was not right, its not suppose to be this way, I am a good girl I dont have sex for money… What alot of rot.. i was so much in my head it was a joke, I could do what i wanted, the only person who was going to judge me was me, who cares what others thought this was about me, about me and my visions.

I got dressed and walked out the door, bag of tricks in hand, I had choosen to have a fun day and that was what I was going to have. I arrived and was rushed in the door, it was a bit scary yet when I walked in and saw the girls, they were just like me, no extra limbs or third eyes, they were girls, just simply girls. A couple of them hot too, mmm I could have some fun sessions with them… my Mistress mind ticking over.

No today I was sarah and sarah was a slut, she was going to lie on her back in the missionary postion and take some cock. Mmmm the time came to go out and strut my stuff, I noticed that I was so self concious and scared, what on earth was I doing, what if someone i knew walked in, what would I do, I realised that this was all stuff in my head, that it was me making up stories who cared it did not matter, I wanted this and I was going to experience it.

It was 1120 when i got my first client, he appeared more nervous than I, quickly I checked him over and sent him to shower.. again made my choice I was going to have fun and enjoy.. I walked back in the room, told him to lie face down on the bed, while I slowly removed my dress and straddled his body. I could feel his heart beat faster and his body tense up as I slid myself on top of him… This was going to be easy, at that point my body loosened i was no longer scared, I was in control complete control.

I slowly rubbed my hands sensually up and down his body, feeling him loosen and relax, I could sense he needed this , he needed the attention and that was fine after all I had made this choice to serve. When it came time for the sex he was gentle, as if he did not want to break me, it was really quiet sweet… I started to move my hips in time with his and clench my muscles around his cock, i wanted him to enjoy this, this was a performance and i loved performance.

Within minutes he came, a quick hard session ofthrusts and then he fell ontop of me, cuddling me, he was spent. My job was done, we lay together for a few minutes longer and then I got up, dressed and left him to shower.

Pure feminine exposure

Lying their open and exposed, fully accepting of my sexuality. how I had changed over the last eighteen months, no longer was I embarrassed, no longer critical about my body, no longer separate from the world.

I had accepted me and embraced my femininity, my legs parted ready and waiting to receive her soft tongue, mmmm my pussy freshly waxed, nothing restricting her soft strokes. I wanted to feel every touch, every sensual caress… mmmm yum yum, I let go giving into my desires my needs.

God how I loved the way my pussy responded, feeling the warm sensations build up inside. Her fingers prying me apart so as her tongue could delve deeper and deeper, into my forbidden fruit. Talk about swinging heaven, words could not describe this pleasure of having such a beautiful woman worship my sacred bush, while i sucked on his manhood like a sweet lollipop, this was pure bliss.. to be pleasured and give pleasure what more could a woman like me desire…

pups x

Foreplay

What is it with some men and women too for that matter… they just rush through life, not stopping to smell the roses, lovemaking, sex or whatever you wish to call it is no exception… However people take a breath take time out, learn to slow down, learn to breathe, honestly the longer you spend on foreplay the more pleasurable an experience you and your partner will have. People you are only on this planet for a short time make the most of it, make very thing you do in life count and that includes sex…

Don’t just use it as a release of tension, savour every moment truly connect with your partner or partners… be present. Take my word for it the more attention given to the lead up the more intense the orgasm. I am not saying that a quickie is not fun, all I am saying is that cover all bases, enjoy that sacred moment when two become one and guys remember most woman do not orgasm through just plain intercourse.

Men tease your woman, run your finger tips slowly up her soft thighs, get ever so close and then just pull away, the art of teasing is so much more fun. Believe me the longer you torment her and tease her pussy the more she will beg for you to touch her to make her cum… You will see her open up like a flower in bloom the more and more you tease, she will be begging for you to fill her to complete her…

Guys give your woman what she deserves give her the attention, worship her, truly treat her like a goddess and make every lovemaking sessions a ritual, a sacred time for you both to really connect to take time out to be there together as one.

pups

Erotic torment

Teasing and torment


It had been a while, a while since I had pleasured him, tonight I was going to remind him how sensually erotic and tormenting my soft mouth could be be. This was not about lovemaking, this was pure unadulterated sex, i wanted to tease him to bring him to the brink of orgasm and feel him tense up and slowly release his breath. i loved this control he had, yet i always wanted to push him further and further. The pleasure I got from feeling his cock get harder and seeing him clench his fists mmmmmm, how delicious, I love this power this control. Seeing him like this was beautiful, highly arousing and sensual to me, I could feel my own excitement building and yet this was only the start, there was the rest of the night to explore and well of course the other couple to torment and tease.

pups

Myth on prostitution

Have you ever asked yourself who or what a prostitute really is.. well this article may enlighten a few of you.

Firstly let me share with you that a prostitute,working girl, hooker, service provider or any other name you wish to give her is actually just a girl. I have been working within the sex industry for several years and in this time have made some close connections. I will also be honest and admit that before I opened my eyes I too judged service providers as drugged up, messed up confused, low self esteem losers, when in actual fact it was I that was the loser.

Working girls in the majority are just like you and me they are business woman they have dreams and goals to achieve… they are sassy, sophisticated and many are in touch with themselves. Yes it is true that there are drugs used within the industry yet no more than in the corporate world..How many physicians, doctors,lawyers,brokers,CEO’s etc pop pills to enable then to focus on the job at hand or to work 70+ hours a week.

Sex workers provide a service that is a natural part of been human, we all have urges and need intimate connections and for someone to pay us attention even if it is just for a short time.Therefore those who judge a girl whom has chosen to profit from using her assets in my opinion is quiet narrow minded and even on some level jealous. I could even go to suggest that they are jealous as they too have the urge to embrace their sexuality and use it yet are too worried about what society may say and how they would be judged that they stay wrapped up in their cotton wool box and judge others.

Since working along side these girls I have found that I have learnt a lot more about life, that you should never judge a book by its cover as behind that shabby cover could be a pot of gold and believe me when I say I have found many hearts of gold and inspirational woman in this industry. I too have learnt a lot about myself and my beliefs and how I even judge myself in life. I am not ashamed of who I am and the fact that I enjoy my work… I do enjoy sex on many levels, I can differentiated sex from making love. really sex is a form of stress relief and a lot better for you than popping Valium or any other type of prescription medicine.

Many of you might ask what about the health issues, sexually transmitted diseases, aren’t girls working in this industry asking for trouble, again let me stress although we may not be all qualified nurses etc we are all trained professionally in ensuring all safety precautions are adhered too and at least in the state I live in, maintain our health check ups on a regular basis. Since providing this service, I have become more diligent when having sex in my personal life as well as my working life. The feeling you get to know that you are 100 per cent healthy… that is something no dollar figure can compete with. Many men still even though it is a criminal offence still ask for natural oral, you feel like knocking their heads against the wall… seriously why would you really wish to go down on a service provider after she has seen several clients fair enough in your private life if you know your partner orpartners are safe and have been checked then that’s different, yet professionally its more like a death sentence in a way.

So just to recap sex workers are no different to you or I, after all they are just earning a living. They are in many ways a lot wiser than many of us and never make the mistake of generalizing all sex workers, thinking that they are ditzy,and have no others skills than lying on their backs.

pups x